I visited Maxine at the weekend and it seemed that, without talking it through, we both knew the boundaries. Karaj assures me that it was because I knew the boundaries. I must not assume that she was also aware of them.
This makes sense somehow, and it is empowering because it means I am the cause. By being the boundaries I wish to have, I am creating my world as I want it to be. There’s no need to communicate anything to anyone. Just be.