At breakfast Dev and I talked about the appraisals we have written and the newsletters which Karaj and I have produced. Robert said he hasn’t read the newsletters. I was astonished. He said he feels they will cause him too much pain and that he is waiting until he is in the right space. I couldn’t believe my ears and yet it made perfect sense. That is how committed he is to the process.
[There is more evidence of this, two months later, as noted in the entry, ‘Different Ways of Supporting Each Other’.]