Relationships

That’s More Like It

Awake. The tiredness seems to be getting worse. Simran arrived 09.05 and the two of us sat together with Karaj. They talked about the Wednesday Group. Simran argued half-heartedly for

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More Conversations

For the second day running I slept until noon and then chatted with Karaj. We talked about cancelling the Wednesday Group (WSG) and just having Fridays and Saturdays. Then we

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Dependence & Independence

I received a call from Calvin. We talked about his work and home issues. There is unrest in both. I told him to stay calm and just do his job.

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Saying Goodbye

The common thread of this 3-day weekend was Ishwar’s letter to his dying father. We began early, in the first supervision. Ishwar needs to say goodbye but he was not

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Two Fathers

It was decided, in consultation with Marian, the girls’ mum, that I would go and pick them up and bring them back for the day out with their dad, Simran.

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A Quiet Christmas

On Christmas Eve, Karaj and I spent a beautiful afternoon touring the Severn Valley. At one point, as we stood in the country park overlooking the river, with the sun

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It’s About Who We Are

After working through the night on Friday, Karaj and I drove to Manchester early yesterday morning. He was attending a course and I was visiting Sonny, an old friend. I

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A Privileged Friendship

Last night, Paula raised outstanding issues with me – how she had behaved when drunk the other night – and for the rest of the night we chatted about how

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Be With People

Again, I started the day being very quiet; remembering my seriousness. It is a strength of mine. When I begin to get jokey it all too often gets out of

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At Face Value

07.30 E&M 35 mins. Karaj and I talked this morning about tangential transactions: the way he gets his message across to people by talking in front of them to another

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