Script

Still Working

Karaj and I have been talking all year about the events and people from my training days. My latest visit to see him was no different. We talked about the

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What We’re Up Against

I posted a journal entry recently, from 11 years ago (My Mind At Work). It was the most difficult entry of all to post because it denigrates the man who

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Be Careful What You Wish For

Every birthday was a chance to make a wish, and throughout my childhood I only remember wishing for two things: a pair of roller skates when I was very young,

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The Fork In The Road

It’s that point in the process of behavioural change, at which we are on the verge of laying down a new pathway. As we stand there, deliberating the fresh, untrodden

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A Pattern’s Course

This post looks at one particular trait of mine – creating dramas – to highlight how patterns originate, are perpetuated, and eventually become automatic. A pattern begins life as a

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Better Strategies

The first time I complimented her she said, ‘Thank you‘. I asked her where she had learnt to react in such a way. She told me her father had taught

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Never Give Up

I don’t know when or why my attitude changed, but it did. I remember the times before it changed: if I was late for a train I would resign myself

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Manipulative Behaviour

This post looks at some of the degrees of manipulative behaviour we exhibit in our everyday interactions, the comments we make, and the strategies we use; all of which are

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It’s My Script

This entry looks at the nature of script and provides background information for the sequence of 11 historical posts between 23rd July 2000 (Brothers & Mothers) and 11th August 2000

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