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Stop Personalising
It’s getting harder each day to get up. I’m very tired and every flat surface looks like a bed in...
Becoming Visible
Discussed with Dev his overall picture of his week ahead. He went off on his own twice; once at the...
Finish Tasks & Take Charge
A learning point from Karaj’s feedback: I do not finish jobs off; I do not see things through. As a...
Reducing Anxiety Through Hard Work
Having realised two days ago that my to-do list is not going to get any shorter, Karaj summed it up...
Serving & Contributing
Karaj said yesterday that we need to take care in our tiredness. The better I become, the more people will...
Potential, Power & True Self
I overslept and Karaj woke me. I had no idea what day it was and felt resentment and negativity at...
The Hearing
It’s the day of the BACP hearing. Dev will accompany Karaj, and Simran will stay at the house with me....
What I Have Created
Karaj gave me feedback from Dev, who had said that he really appreciates what I am doing for him. He...
Love & Support
For the first half hour of this morning’s work with Karaj I was wholly ineffective, not able to assimilate any...
No Choice But To Carry On
Karaj and I chatted in the garden, warmed gently by the early morning sunshine. ‘If you survive the next year,...
Be More Forceful
Karaj and I chatted about me creating my own space away from him over the next 4-5 years. This means...
Challenged All Day
Karaj told me I am fucking around and not using the group to make my life easier. I get the...