Drivers

My Future is My Present

I control my present and my future. Moreover, the two are inextricably linked. How I am in the present affects what will happen in my future. If I worry now,

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Training Day: Games & Drivers

Games Victim Rescuer Persecutor All games involve interactions using at least two of these three roles. The fascinating aspect of such psychological games is that individuals can switch roles in

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Slow Down

Last night I felt a little deflated. Today, however, I started the day with my exercises and I enjoyed them very much. I exercised more deliberately and more slowly this

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A Doer & A Perfectionist

Another good day with Karaj saw us finish off our flower pot herb garden. Again, it was a joy to work with him, proving that it is possible for a

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A Busy Weekend Alone

Went for an early morning walk in the park, and returned to the house with fruit and flowers – beautiful tulips. Made a start on the decorating. Samantha phoned and

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Parent Ego State

I need to make much more use of my Parent ego state (Transactional Analysis) to quieten my emotions. In the past, my problems have arisen mostly because of my emotional reaction to

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I Am the Cause

12 months ago I returned to England (after a few years in Germany) thinking I had done most of the hard work necessary to be a well developed, rounded human

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Allowing Your Self

Today was an opportunity to allow my perfectionism free expression: I helped a friend put up a curtain rail and curtains. This simple job, excellently executed, brought about big a

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